The Intimidation Factor
Boudoir photography can be an intimidating experience, even for the most self-assured. Your client is fully aware that she’ll be the focal point, attempting poses and expressions that may be new to her. The idea of looking amazing in lingerie, under the guidance of a relative stranger, with a camera capturing every nuance, can understandably make anyone apprehensive.
Physical Insecurities
Moreover, like most of us, your client might have certain physical traits she wishes she could change. It’s common for clients to point out “problem areas” they’d prefer to downplay. So, it’s important for her to know that she can trust you to make her feel comfortable and look beautiful in the final images.
Navigating the Unknown
Most people are uneasy with uncertainty, and hiring a boudoir photographer for the first time comes with its own set of worries. Before the session, give your client an overview of what to expect. Discuss your working style, the atmosphere you aim to create, and what a typical boudoir session looks like.
Privacy Concerns
Privacy is a significant issue for many clients, both during the session and afterward. Some clients relish the idea of their photos being showcased on your website or blog, while others are more reserved. Assure your client that you maintain strict privacy protocols during the sessions and that no image will be publicly displayed without their written consent. If they opt for online proofing, explain that while you take every precaution, there’s no absolute guarantee of security on third-party servers.
Self-Image and Retouching
One frequent question from clients is about retouching and reshaping. Make it clear that virtually all finished boudoir images undergo some level of editing. The extent to which a client’s appearance is altered in the final images is a collaborative decision between you and the client. Boudoir photography aims to capture fantasy and beauty, so some retouching is generally both necessary and welcome.
Finding the Comfort Zone
Clients often say that a boudoir session is a step outside their comfort zone. However, that doesn’t mean they want to be photographed in ways that genuinely make them uncomfortable. During consultations, discuss the desired look and content of the final images. This is not the time for ambiguity; you and your client must be on the same page before the session begins.
Sometimes a client will explicitly state her preferences, while others may decide on more revealing shots as the session progresses. In all cases, the client controls what she reveals to the camera. Your job is to guide her into poses that align with her initial expectations. As she becomes more comfortable, she’ll indicate what additional poses or looks she’s willing to try.
Before the session, consider showing example images in various styles, poses, and levels of undress. This helps the client identify what she likes and wants to try, making the session more productive and enjoyable for both parties.